Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
Omg if I see this one more time I’m going to flip out. Some girls do bleed, and it can hurt. This doesn’t mean that the guy hasn’t turned on the girl enough. Some girls have wide or shallow set vaginas. Some have a thick hymen, some have already broken their hymen, some don’t have one at all. Every woman is different. I know my first time hurt a bit and I was more than ready for it. So can everyone stfu about this already. Point is, don’t let anyone pressure you into sex cause you won’t enjoy it. But if it hurts or you bleed the first time this does not mean your partner is hurting you or that you weren’t ready. -_-