Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt

You are NOT supposed to bleed

If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.

This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.

I just really want women to know this.

wait…. really?

yes really

Omg if I see this one more time I’m going to flip out. Some girls do bleed, and it can hurt. This doesn’t mean that the guy hasn’t turned on the girl enough. Some girls have wide or shallow set vaginas. Some have a thick hymen, some have already broken their hymen, some don’t have one at all. Every woman is different. I know my first time hurt a bit and I was more than ready for it. So can everyone stfu about this already. Point is, don’t let anyone pressure you into sex cause you won’t enjoy it. But if it hurts or you bleed the first time this does not mean your partner is hurting you or that you weren’t ready. -_-

(via condom)


so tonight my philosophy professor had these nasty bruises all over her arms and she stopped mid-lecture to say “sorry you guys have to look at my bruised-up body, my friend brought a stripper pole over for thanksgiving and that shit is not easy. tip your strippers. tip your strippers well” and then immediately kept talking about philosophy

(via motherhenna)

college: Why should we accept you

me: *raps the entire verse of anaconda and laughs nicki's nasty laugh flawlessly*

college: damn son you in






she put up a video of her telling miyah that she thinks she’s very pretty without the wig too and that playing dress up is fun but to promise to stay in school

Love this!

Stories you won’t see in the media

#nicki is so protective of young girls#this needs to be underlined more#also she gives them edited versions of her albums#magical girls protect other girls#bless nicki

You can hate someone’s music and love them as a person. This is one of those cases for me.

(via condom)